You don’t need to make yourself as “Perfect” with your friends who look “Perfect”. Don’t just be jealous of the perfection your friends have, then you want to be like them too. You should know that everyone has their portion of success depending on the struggle they are doing. You only see what he gets now without knowing the long and tiring process he has gone through. As an example, you don’t know that a girl doesn’t text back to that person often, and he has experienced this with multiple girls, and you only see him by the time he finally ended up with a very pretty girl after a long and tiring process.
You better focus on fighting for what you want as best you can without comparing the results you will get later. If you really have tried your best, just be sure you will definitely get what you want. At least even if you fail, you will definitely get the experience to avoid the same mistakes in the future. Besides that, you have to understand that you can never satisfy everyone to be who they want you to be.
In fact, you will never be able to satisfy everyone to be what they want to be. You must dare to be honest with yourself by doing whatever you want and be yourself. Do something because of your own desires, not because of other people’s demands you must be like this and like that.
People who you think are “perfect” in their lives must have had a tiring and painful struggle that you have never felt. Instead of just comparing yourself with other people, you try to evaluate the struggle you have done so far whether you have done a struggle that is proportional to what you want or your struggle is still half measures. This is what makes you always fail to get what you want, you give up halfway. You must turn your own mistakes to your own lessons and advantages.
The reality is that someone’s success is proportional to the struggle that they do. If now you can not be like they could be because the struggle you have done is not as heavy and difficult as they do.